The journey to and adoption of Jacob Ethan (2008) Christian James (2012)and our lives in between!
Saturday, February 28, 2009
Prayer request
Hopefully Jacob travels well, he did when we went to Chicago, but that was at one month old, now he is 6 months! He is also cutting 2 bottom teeth so he is a little more fussy during the day.
We'll return home on Tuesday.
Sunday, February 22, 2009
green beans, rashes and other fun stuff
I think he's hanging on for dear life wondering what his mother gave him here!
We didn't go too wild trying to make him eat a lot. It was enough of a taste test for him. We tried again Saturday night and Jacob finished off the jar Sunday night.
He ate much better the 3rd time around! Not too many weird faces. That'll come with the next food change in a couple days...peas perhaps?
Something exciting this week is that we have our final 'post-placement' meeting with our social worker. We're not sure what all we'll talk about with her, Jacob is definately growing! We're assuming mostly finalization info. For those of you not familiar with how adoptions work (or maybe it's different in the state you live in...) Jacob (or other babies/children in Iowa) must be in the home for 6 months before steps towards finalization can occur. (meaning he officially becomes ours in a court hearing and a birth certificate will be printed with Breen, and we can claim our adoption expenses on tax forms...you get the idea) Our adoption agency will send the necessary paperwork to our attorney, who will then prepare some other paper work to present to the court. That paperwork has to be in the courts hands for 30 days before a hearing can take place. (Sorry if I lost you, but this is my general understanding of how it works - some of you know the technical terms - hopefully I am on track with this)
Basically, it's a pretty big deal and we're excited for steps toward the finalization to begin soon!
It's off to bed for another busy week lies ahead!
N, MB, J
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
baby gathering
Monday, February 16, 2009
Yeay for Presidents Day!
Nate and Jacob got mommy some flowers for Valentine's Day, they smell beautiful! Jacob and I got Nate a few of his favorites - Mt. Dew and Chocolate Chip cookies and Jacob found a DAD photo frame, around the word DAD it says, Anyone can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a dad (or something like that). Here's a picture of Nate and Jacob opening their presents together.
Jacob was enjoying being tickled!
Friday, February 13, 2009
Happy Valentine's Day!
The red paint on his feet in the earlier post is because of this little project. Jacob wanted to send his Aunt Sarah in Washington D.C. a special valentine, he misses her babysitting him and wanted to send his love!
We were able to make 2 other copies as well - one is proudly hanging in our kitchen on the fridge - Jacob's first artwork! The other will be going to his birthmother. We wanted to send something special to her as well. We continually pray for her.
I was also busy this week with another little project. I wanted to make my valentine's for my students this year rather than find some store bought ones...so here is what I came up with:
It was rather ambitious of me. Glitter was scattered throughout the kitchen, with a few sprinkles remaining around. They turned out pretty cute! I found this in an idea book for teaching and it recommended the students making it for their parents for v-day - boy am I glad I did not try to tackle this project with them! It was difficult (& messy) enough for a 26 year old, let alone a 26 year old trying to get 7 preschoolers (or 12 Kindergarteners!) to make it without making too great of a mess!
Speaking of preschool - we had a fun morning! It was Muffins with Mom day, so of course we enjoyed muffins and then we made sock puppets! (This was something I wanted to do with them, but not alone! A perfect day for such an activity.) The puppets are absolutely adorable and so unique from each others. Maybe I'll try to crop the pictures so take the people out so you can see them!
Well, it's another Friday night of Jacob and I home alone (we did spend a few hours this afternoon home together). Nate almost always works Friday night. (This really helps our daycare bill!) I'll have to try to get some cleaning done, tax documents ready for our appt in a few weeks, laminating to cut...I'm sure there is lots more to do, but that's my goal for tonight - we'll see what Jacob has to say about it all!
We look forward to meeting Jacob's cousin from Michigan this upcoming week. T, T & baby J are coming on Monday! The 3 Breen babies will all get to be together for the first time!
Have a fantastic weekend!
Sunday, February 8, 2009
pictures, news, life...
He has always been quite aware of what is going on around him, but he's learning to manipulate things to change his environment - his gym - the rattles that hang down, or the musical star that lights up and plays music, the exersaucer has many toys he's learning use. Everything goes in his mouth lately as he is working on teeth too.
Jacob also enjoyed his first superbowl party last Sunday. He was very well behaved and although he wasn't cheering for a specific team, mom and dad were cheering for the AZ Cardinals.
Earlier this week Jacob asked us to help him with a project. This is a sneak peak of that project. It was certainly adventurous and I'm so glad I had Nate's help. The last time I use paint with Jacob I did it solo and that was a mistake! So - we put our old clothes on, Jacob was stripped down to his diaper and away we went!
To the bathtub to wash up! This lil fellow LOVES bath time! The giggles and splashes are so fun to watch.
So those little baby towels don't do the trick any more for Jacob! We were given several (real) towels that had little hoods sewn on them, some with ribbon, duck heads, and this one with his name stitched on! They are super cute, and we're glad we went to the bigger, more absorbant, warmer towel. If you happened to be the giver of one of these to us, THANK YOU!
Here's another shot. Nate's pretty excited to cheer on another season of his cubbies.
The past several weeks we have been taking a financial class called Financial Peace University by Dave Ramsey. The goal of the class is to become debt free and 'live like no one else so we can live like no one else'. We have never had an official 'budget' before, but this month we are really hammering down. At the beginning of the month, this is what our refrigerator looked like: